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BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS

  • Broken Open

    Re-released in 2020, and updated for these challenging times, this book features a new introduction and tools to support readers through life’s difficulties. During times of transition, amid everyday stress, and even when we face seemingly insurmountable adversity, life offers us a choice: to turn away from change or to embrace it; to shut down or to be broken open and transformed.

  • The Beauty of What Remains

    This inspiring and comforting book takes us on a journey through the experience of loss that is fundamental to everyone. Yet even after having sat beside thousands of deathbeds, Steve Leder the rabbi was not fully prepared for the loss of his own father. It was only then that Steve Leder the son truly learned how loss makes life beautiful by giving it meaning and touching us with love that we had not felt before.

  • Past and Present

    Passed and Present is the first “how-to” book for remembering loved ones, offering 85 inspiring and uplifting ways to celebrate the family and friends you never want to forget. Creative and empowering, this much-needed, easy-to-use roadmap delivers a powerful and unexpected benefit: it can make you happier. The more we can embrace the people who have passed and all that’s good and fulfilling in our present.

  • Permission To Grieve

    Permission to Grieve guides you to call your grief out of hiding and invites you to permit it through thoughtful writing prompts, easy-to-follow exercises, and clever visual illustrations. A powerful permission slip for hearts facing death, divorce, diagnosis, and more

  • One Hundred Daffodils

    An engaging, wise, and uplifting reflection on human resilience and nature’s ability to teach, inspire, and heal after an unexpected life upheaval, One Hundred Daffodils is told through the lens of the author’s personal experiences with grief and heartbreak on her journey toward self-discovery and empowerment.

  • What Happened to You

    Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain development and trauma expert, Dr Bruce Perry, discuss the impact of trauma and adverse experiences and how healing must begin with a shift to asking 'What happened to you?' rather than 'What’s wrong with you?'.

  • Bearing the Unbearable

    Organized into fifty-two short chapters, Bearing the Unbearable is a companion for life’s most difficult times, revealing how grief can open our hearts to connection, compassion, and the very essence of our shared humanity. Dr. Joanne Cacciatore—bereavement educator, researcher, Zen priest, and leading counselor in the field—accompanies us along the heartbreaking path of love, loss, and grief.

  • Grief Works

    Grief Works by Julia Samuel is a compassionate guide that will support, inform and engage anyone who is grieving, from the ‘expected’ death of a parent to the sudden and unexpected death of a small child. Julia Samuel, a grief psychotherapist, has spent twenty-five years working with the bereaved and understanding the full repercussions of loss. It also provides clear advice for those seeking to comfort the bereaved.

  • The Modern Loss Handbook

    Modern Loss cofounder Rebecca Soffer wished she had after her parents died. With wisdom gained from her own personal experience, expert advice, and insights from the global Modern Loss community, This book is for anyone who has lost their “person” or wants to give something meaningful and effective to someone who has.

  • Healing a Friend's Grieving Heart

    This flagship title in the 100 Ideas Series offers 100 practical ideas to help you practice self-compassion. Some of the ideas teach you the principles of grief and mourning. The remainder offers practical, action-oriented tips for embracing your grief. Each idea also suggests a carpe diem, which will help you seize the day by helping you move toward your healing today.

  • The Year Of Magical Thinking

    This stunning book is an account of the year following the death of the author's husband, John Gregory Dunne. The Year of Magical Thinking was immediately acclaimed as a classic book about mourning. This powerful book is Didion’s attempt to make sense of the “weeks and months that cut loose any fixed idea I ever had about death,... about the shallowness of sanity, about life itself.

  • Notes on Grief

    Notes on Grief is an exquisite work of meditation, remembrance, and hope, written in the wake of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's beloved father’s death in the summer of 2020. As the COVID-19 pandemic raged around the world and kept Adichie and her family members separated from one another, her father succumbed unexpectedly to complications of kidney failure.

  • In Love: A memoir of Love and Loss

    A poignant love letter to Bloom's husband and a passionate outpouring of grief, In Love reaffirms the power and value of human relationships. A powerful memoir of a love that leads two people to find a courageous way to part—and a woman’s struggle to go forward in the face of loss—that “enriches the reader’s life with urgency and gratitude” (The Washington Post)

  • The Grieving Brain

    In The Grieving Brain, neuroscientist and psychologist Mary-Frances O’Connor, PhD, gives us a fascinating new window into one of the hallmark experiences of being human. O’Connor has devoted decades to researching the effects of grief on the brain, and in this book, she makes cutting-edge neuroscience accessible through her contagious enthusiasm, and guides us through how we encode love and grief.

  • Lost and Found

    A Pulitzer Prize-winning New Yorker writer tells the story of losing her father and finding the love of her life in this profound meditation on grief and joy. Eighteen months before her beloved father died, Kathryn met Casey, who would become her wife. Schulz writes with curiosity, tenderness, and humor about the connections between joy and sorrow—and between us all.

  • Breaking Sad

    Real stories and real feedback on what should be said, what should be kept to yourself, and what can be done when trying to support someone you care about as they navigate loss. Breaking Sad helps us start conversations through its pages of personal stories and suggestions from everyday survivors. Featuring stories from Montel Williams, Olivia Newton-John, Scott Hamilton, Giuliana Rancic, Valerie Harper, and more.

  • Grief Day By Day

    Supportive readings and exercises to help you move through life after loss, one day at a time. Grief is complex; it may present itself differently on any given day. This grief recovery handbook offers daily reflections and practices that address the day-to-day emotions and experiences that accompany the grieving process so you can create a life in which peace―and even gratitude―can coexist with your grief.

  • Everything Happens for a Reason And Other Lies I’ve Loved

    "Frank and funny, dark and wise, Kate Bowler pulls the reader deeply into her life in an account she populates affectionately with a colorful, often hilarious retinue of friends, mega-church preachers, relatives, and doctors. Kate Bowler tells her story, offering up her irreverent, hard-won observations on dying and the ways it has taught her to live."